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What Guys Need To Know About Divorce

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What Guys Need To Know About Divorce

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Notes from my video on Divorce, and whether or not it's the answer, hope you enjoyed it. Please share with someone that needs to see this.

This is deep red pill stuff, and answers the question: Why do men go MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) after divorce.

Watch the movie: Divorce Corp for more insight.

INTRO - Ultimate life hack is the right partner - men die because of divorce.

You do not truly know someone until you divorce them.

Marry on YOUR terms because Divorce is on her terms.

BEFORE

THE REPRESENTATIVE - Baby rabies - Live together before you marry - If you think you have problems before marriage, they will only get worse after. Kids or marriage don't solve problems, they amplify them.

THE DIVORCE

- woman have no incentive to behave in divorce

Government Policy & Family Law Idealising single mothers like they are an asset to society.

Government fleeces men

You lived with a single mum, and aren't he biological father? Screw you pay me

She stole your used condom, and used it to get pregnant? Screw you pay me

Broke your back and can't work? Screw you pay me

Section 7 expenses - anything she chooses to put the kids in, you pay for in Canada at least

If you lost your job as a married couple or couldn't work for 6 months all would be forgiven. But divorced, it's fuck you pay me.

If the cost was 0/m for your child why is it ,000/m when divorced?

Female nature
Shame tactics - hell hath no fury like a women scorn.

Criticise to motivate you did it wrong - why did you do it that way - We don't have enough money - You're going to wear that?

Men love emotionally, women love opportunistically.

Hypergamy - Women marry up

Parental alienation - he's been run though the family court system, and if lucky gets to come by once a week and see how effective his ex is at making his own children hate him

All you do is write cheques and watch your children go downhill.

Leavor/Leavee relationship. Women don't want you to leave, and are insane about it. When women leave you, its over quick. When men leave women, its never over till she has won.

Access, and why you want shared custody.

- Move anywhere in the world without your consent
- Makes decisions without your consent (medical, religious, name change)
- Money all flows to her, and its totally unreasonable in the amount

Fatherless children
Fatherless children are 3 times more likely as a teen to: be pregnant, commit suicide, be suspended from school, abuse drugs/alcohol, join gangs, or end up in jail.
Single mothers with live in boyfriend mean the rate of child maltreatment is 9 times higher than married parents

EXAMPLES OF SHIT

- Wife divorces 2 days after child is born (full custody)
- Wife takes kid, moves out, makes claim father was abusive - later she gets knocked up by another man, and has a fatherless child - claims less then k income for 2 yrs yet shows up in a range rover for court dates
- Guy stayed in house, wife harassed him, false accusations, raped him. Begged him to have another kid during the divorce.
- Knew a guy that lost 150,000 on the sale of his house
- security cleared to talk to kids, highest security clearance in Iraq, yet needed supervised visits to see his own kids
- False accusations of domestic violence will ruin you.

Rsources: Canlii.org and ottawadivorce.com

STATS - when choosing your partner

- Chances of being in a stable marriage (defined as 5+ yrs) are in the 60% range if age of first sexual activity is 19+. If it was 14 or younger its less than 40% chance
- If She has had 16 or more partners chances of a stable marriage are less then 20%
- Women with more sexual partners are less content in marriage

Bottom line is if your wife has had many sexual partners, and lost her virginity at a young age, your chances of divorce are higher

Stefan Molyneux video relating to stats
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=um3EmS9DKsI&t=0s

This Vlog is about my recent journey through Divorce. I break it down to the "5 stages of Grief" and talk about my experience with

Denial, Anger, Bargaining, Depression and then Acceptance...

This in no way reflects the vast experiences that each, individual person faces when going through a breakup, separation and divorce. This is a summary of my own experiences and how I arrived on the other side of divorce as a new, whole person.

I hope this resonates with women who are feeling lonely, ashamed, guilty or lost during their own divorce- wherever you are in the process.

Please message me and ask me any questions you may have on this subject. My heart goes out to you and I want you to know that you're not alone.

xoxo
Lavenda

Resources And Articles:

http://grief.com/the-five-stages-of-grief/
http://www.livestrong.com/article/126120-five-stages-grief-divorce/

http://www.everydayhealth.com/hs/major-depression/ask-for-help/

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40 thoughts on “What Guys Need To Know About Divorce

  1. Ryan Mckinnon

    I have to be at work at 6am and I’m lucky to make it home by 8pm… I work construction and there’s not a lot of options for me work wise how do I do share custody with these hours??

  2. Chris Burger

    This should be required viewing for every kid graduating college. I would not have believed it then, but post divorce I have lived it. Now at 48 I alone control my destiny.

  3. donald gordon

    Great video ,trust me

  4. Shiley L

    I'm 24 and I for the last few months I have been having this desire to nurture a baby. This desire just came to me out of nowhere considering the fact that i am introvert and enjoy being alone. Didn't know this was called baby rabies lol. The only thing that worries me is that having a child means I won't be able to retire early 🙁

  5. Melisa Delgado

    Not all divorces have child support battles , etc. I am divorced and we walked away taking care of our child the way we did when we were married – without child support. People need to respect each other before, during and after marriage. It comes down to respect. Unless your child is in danger things should remain the same when it comes to the child. My point… not all women are like this.the same way not all men are deadbeat. All of these claims that can possibly happen is just proof that those people shouldn’t be in marriage to begin with.

  6. Proloop Under

    Yep, Muslims get gun for marriage present and then they draw a little red dot on wife's forehead… Now go, try and divorce. I am really no big fan of Muslim culture, but I do think they have a point when it comes to females…. Greetings.

  7. Proloop Under

    Mate, I am some dude from fucken Bosnia Hercegovina, I don't know why are you talking about my life… Is it really possible that it is all the same everywhere… How did we let this happen? My daughter chooses me all day long but that is totally irrelevant… How did we came to this, heartbroken, freed from money, completely lost…

  8. rcarter1able

    I’m a divorced woman and I can unfortunately agree with you when it comes to law favouring women and women behaving terribly in divorce. I wowed I wouldn’t be one of those and glad to say I succeeded. I recognised the importance of my ex in my children’s lives so we share our children 50/50. I have moved only a couple of miles away from our family home (I couldn’t afford to stay there and wouldn’t want him to pay) even though I have no family here. As a result our children have coped with the separation well.
    I have spoken to a few single dads and most of them only see their kids every other weekend. I would urge you to ask for more time to see you children if you want to. It is your right!!! You do not need to resign yourself to just a couple of days every other week if you don’t want to.

  9. J S

    Marriage is a License for her and Attorneys to Steal Everything you worked for all of your Life.
    And you dont have to do anything wrong.
    She goes to an Attorney and they file with a court.
    You are screwed. They forced me out of my Home that i made the Down Payment and all of the Payments on. And all of the Improvements out of my Pocket and Labor.

    Forcing me to Pay support to someone who has a $45,000 a Year Retirement and Paid Health Care for Life.
    And this is just the First 6 months. I have no idea what will be next.
    But im sure they are planning to steal my Pension too.
    NEVER SIGN A MARRIAGE LICENSE
    I paid for that Home with my Cal Vet Loan. Im 67 Years Old and should be Retired.
    No she is 2 years younger then me and when i married this……She was an unwed Mother on Welfare Living at Her Parents.

  10. ditch1776

    This would have been great 6 years ago

  11. Greg Patterson

    God Damnit fuck marriage !!

  12. Arathorn Dezeus

    Maybe sharia law wouldn't be that bad compared to this bs

  13. Jon Michaels

    If you want to read about divorce hell get a book called True story Bro by Keith Blayze. It's on Amazon. Most fucked up thing I've ever read! This dude goes through hell in his divorce!

  14. misty macintosh

    Some of the info shared is on-point, but there is a definite woman hater tone underlying this whole rant. Bottom line, men get WAY more out of marriage than women do!

  15. Kevin OConnor

    Yes , quite often a divorced woman will poison the childs mind with negativity against the father…and that is a sociopathic trait.

  16. Kevin OConnor

    About 15 years ago i was on a train , 2 women sitting behind me talking about divorce when one of them says " Just get what you can out of him "". Thats when the penny dropped for me .

  17. RandomChannel

    rape you while you're sleeping?!? Please elaborate…

  18. Jonathan Noble Esquire

    Overall, excellent, heartfelt video. I do not know the laws of Canada at all. Some of what you stated is not 100% congruent with various state divorce and child custody laws in specific states in the US.

    Every divorce and child custody matter is different. In the US, divorce and child custody laws can and do vary from state to state, so for anyone facing a potential divorce, child support, or child custody matter, it is well worth it to consult with an attorney licensed in your jurisdiction to help you understand your rights in any family law matter.

    A suggestion to anyone (man or woman) thinking about getting married: seriously consider having a prenup properly drafted by an experienced and competent family law attorney who is licensed in your jurisdiction. You should try to have everything finalized before the wedding invitations are ordered. You cannot imagine what can happen during the negotiation of a prenup.
    Even if you have modest assets now at the beginning of the marriage, a properly prepared prenup can save considerable time and costs if your marriage becomes non-functioning. If you have already amassed a significant amount of assets, or if you are entering a historically well-paying profession, or if you are expecting a large inheritance, you would be foolish to get married without discussing how a prenup can help protect you if your marriage ends. This suggestion is applicable to both men and women.

    A suggestion to anyone thinking about getting divorced: seek competent legal counsel ASAP to help you understand your rights and responsibilities. I suggest that you speak to at least two (or more) divorce lawyers who are licensed to practice in your jurisdiction and try to find someone who you trust and who will work hard to advocate for you. Once you select and hire a competent attorney, listen to that attorney and follow their advice.

    If you cannot afford a high priced family law attorney, you should know that in many jurisdictions, the local bar association may have a "legal access project" or "modest means lawyer referral service" where you can get a consutation for a modest fee. The hourly rates for attorneys who accept cases through these programs also commonly accept divorce and family law cases for a much lower fee than a full fee attorney. You will usually be much better off navigating family courts with a competent attorney in your corner.

    Finally, as the video states, there are many things you can and should do to protect yourself if you find yourself in an ugly situation where the other side is out of control. Seek competent legal counsel ASAP. Search vigorously. Select wisely.

  19. President Evil

    get a prenup or even better never get married

  20. Veronica Collins

    This guy rëally hates women ¡,,

  21. Wellness Connect

    You are so beautiful and seem so healed and healthy. Thanks for the advice. This was an awesome video. I hope I can be happy one day. I never lived alone in 12 yrs. Yikes

  22. browneyedgirl428

    Uggghhhhhhh………I’m still in denial & my husband won’t change

  23. Anshul Chahar

    I m going threw same situation ,but for me its tough to make a firm desicision to move on from sucking marriage 😑

  24. twinstars milkyway

    Sounds like your a woman of experience in the divorce department, me too i learned the prettier they are the bitchier they are

  25. Laura M

    So many toxic men commenting on this video…

  26. Ely B

    I feel so related to your story!! I am going through a lot in my marrige rigth now and I honestly don't know what is going to happen but I have a daughter as well I just hope whatever happens will be for the best!!

  27. Bernie Smith

    A bikini top would be better in this video,

  28. Bernie Smith

    Any guy that gets married today should have his head examined! The party phase, is the only part of any relationship worthwhile! Untill the laws change MGTOW is the only way to go. You do have nice lips! Party on babe!

  29. Martin Bonventre

    FIRST, YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL

    I AM GOING THROUGH A DIVORCE RIGHT NOW AND WE HAVE A 17 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER.

    MY WIFE WAS MY HIGH SCHOOL SWEETHEART, BEEN TOGETHER FOR OVER 30 YEARS. UNTIL JUST RECENTLY MY WIFE TOLD ME THAT SHE WANTS A DIVORCE WITH NO SPECIFIC REASON. AS A MAN, HUSBAND, FATHER, I AM DEVASTATED. AM DISABLED WITH MULTIPLE SCLEROSIS AND HAVENT BEEN ABLE TO WORK FOR MANY YEARS. BUT OVER THOSE YEARS I WORKED ON LIFTING MY WIFE HIGHER AND RAISING OUR DAUGHTER TO BECOME THE YOUNG LOVING WOMAN SHE IS TODAY.

    BUT I AM SOO UPSET OVER THE DIVORCE THAT I WANT TO MOVE AWAY AS FAR AS POSSIBLE FROM MY WIFE. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN EVER BE AROUND HER AGAIN. BUT MY DAUGHTER IS HOLDING ME BACK.

    I DONT KNOW WHAT TO DO. PLEASE GIVE ME ANY SUGGESTIONS YOU MAY HAVE.

    THANK YOU!!

  30. Bibiana Sandoval

    Thank you. This has been one of the toughest decision of my life

  31. MC Kim

    I felt alone and very sad but we're not divorce
    He's too cold to me and he doesn't want to tackle our hidden problems he kinda run away. I HATE MYSELD FOR LOVING HIM SO BADLY.
    I don't know what to do

  32. lightweightbench

    Ya. You fucked up.

  33. Amanda D

    Going through this now. Thank you for sharing your story and experiences ❤️

  34. alphadog708

    Marriage lol people get what they ask for ..the lucky ones last but most dont..anything to do with the Church= poison,stay single or just fuck casually 😉 no one wants to hear about Divorce..try spending over 3 to 4 years knowing the person before you tie the knott..Most people rush in like fools

  35. Julie Quarm

    I know you made this video a while ago but I just found it. Thank you…just thank you

  36. The Hopeless Fisherman

    Hey, thanks for this video. I know it's mostly aimed at women, but it really rang true for me. I also come from a religious background and wanted to make this work at all cost, so I think I've been stuck in the denial phase for more than 3 years now. Anyway, I appreciate you sharing… It's painful, but time to move on for me.

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  38. QUEEN WATERS

    Seeing so many comments about divorce saddens my heart. What happened to people fighting property for their marriage, what happened to people standing for their marriages? What happened to seeking God when you or your marriage is being tested to where you feel like you want to walk away? I understand separation because some situations are unhealthy for you, depressing, some people even go through abuse but where is God in any of this? I ask because I am a spiritual woman and I know God's promises for marriages and I know that God hates divorce and he doesn't bring to people so close together to get married just to end up divorcing each other. That is not how it works. You seek God and you make sure God is in the center of your marriage always and sometimes we fall short. I relate because I am currently separated from my husband due to unhealthy situations but God Is A Healer. You have to take your fight to God and leave it all in God's hands and stop fighting with your spouse's. If your spouse wants to be a prodigal let them leave and give it to God and ask God to heal was hurting you and Trust and Believe when God is finished working and human whatever it is that's broken in you and they're done God is done working on your spouse he will send your spouse back home. Everybody takes the easy Road out and wants to give up on marriages and that is not how it should be. God Is So displeased with how many people want to divorce. It's actually sickening to me. But I guess everybody is not spiritual and everybody doesn't follow on God's word. But I will pray for restoration for all of you that are experiencing divorce. And even if some of you have already finish the divorce and you are actually divorced from your spouse you are still one flesh and God can restore divorces and he will bring you back from your marriage. Search the website there's a lot of people with testimonies I'm going to be a testimony speaking on here as well. I'll just pray for you all

  39. dominique windrim

    I’m crying watching this. I just signed the divorce papers today. Everyday I cry so much especially today. I was the one who ruined this whole marriage and i wanted to fix it but my ex just doesn’t want to be with me or love me anymore. My heart is so broken. I have bad depression and I’m having a hard time right now trying to get through my days.

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